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Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007, 12:05 pm

Well, overall I had a good weekend.

Friday night wasn't so great, I ended up getting very upset at a friend who declared I was masculine. I know it's dumb me getting upset, but I did. I never really enjoyed being called a boy when I was in high school and got higher marks than the guys in Maths and Science and I think I may still have issues regarding those times. I think I was also upset becuase it was my friend's point of view that my experiences in male/female frienships and relationships may not be particularly valid because maybe I was masculine. He seems to think it's okay to say this because he said he was feminine. I went home early on Friday so that I could sulk in peace but I just bored myself so I went to bed.

Saturday went to The Patch and spent some time with Mum and Dad. I had a very chilled day hanging out with them. I mastered crocheted Granny Squares and I gave a Yoga Chi Gung class to my parents, which was just as much of a learning experience for me as it was for them, it was rewarding though. It's about five degrees colder up the mountain and was misty and spooky all day Saturday. Sunday we had lunch at Cooks corner, then the train trip back to the city. I love the Dandenongs. Even though it is so cold and wet, I love the greeness, the lushness, the birdlife and the tree ferns. The energy is so different up there.

Sunday I had a lovely meal at Alphabet with my friend Anna, then I watched High Fidelity.
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Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 03:03 am (UTC)

*Points upwards*

What she said

Also on his logic, if you are butch and he is femme don't you just end up with the same problem? (femme people cant be friends with butch people)

ok now my head hurts.

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 03:21 am (UTC)

it's not that he thinks we can't be friends, we are friends, well hopefully we still are. I was trying to convince him that he might be abe to get over his unrequited love for another friend of ours, eventually, and was telling him about some of my past experiences and that's when he said the M word and that my experiences weren't valid.

It's pretty dumb really. Sorry for making you hurt your head. :-)

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 03:23 am (UTC)

It's not you who is making my head hurt.

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 03:18 am (UTC)

Ta, would love to catch up soon. :-)

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 02:29 am (UTC)

I reckon you're totally feminine. :-)

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 03:18 am (UTC)

thanks hon

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 02:39 am (UTC)

I'm glad you're feeling better. Your friend's a total dumbarse.

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 03:23 am (UTC)

yeah a good sulk and a good nights sleep and it kind of put things in perspective. :-) Thanks for putting up with my pouting and sulking on the drive home. I hope you had a good night.

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 02:43 am (UTC)

Hey girlfriend..

He seems to think it's okay to say this because he said he was feminine.

Just chucking it out there, but maybe he is uncomfortable with his feminine aspects (or more likely LACK of some masculine aspects) and is trying to pull you down into his neurosis?

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 03:25 am (UTC)

hello, yeah I suspect he has a few issues.

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 06:00 am (UTC)

[insert witty and conclusive reassurance of your femininity here]

Mon, Jul. 9th, 2007 08:25 am (UTC)

Masculine? WTF? :(